Pecan Pie

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Little green clamped tight
In desperate need of the Southern sun’s attention
Stingy all these months
But I see that hint of crisp, thick white at the tip
Waiting for the perfect ray to coax it
And peel back that miserly bud

show April what you’ve been holding inside.

Written by thelittlepecan

April 5, 2013 at 5:20 pm

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Book Comments: Submissive Confessions

Submissive Confessions By: C.K. George, A Sociological Review

This is a little bit different from what I usually write, but my dear friend was kind enough to offer me a Kindle version of her book and I offered to review it in response to the privilege of reading it for free.

A little bit of background and explanation. The author began the journey of writing this book when we were both still writing over at MySpace. I did not read those articles then and in a way, I’m glad. I got a completely unexpected look at the writing, the story and how I felt about the issues being presented.

Of course, I’ll have to be true to myself and in doing so this review will be from a sociological perspective, which for me, is fantastic. I can do something for Mrs. George and do something to stretch my brain at the same time. This will not be a critic of the literary value of this book, not in the traditional sense, but will be an examination of the sociological-specifically feminist-theoretical value of this book, and I think that value is high.

Submissive Confessions is the story of a young woman tricked into a lifestyle of sexual slavery, prostitution, drug addiction and self-loathing. Through her own strength of will, she escapes the man who has become her owner but, of course, it wouldn’t be a good story if that was all there was. Without divulging too much of the story-line, I’ll say this: This book is not for the easily offended.

I think that’s fantastic. What’s more fantastic is that woman can comfortably write very explicit, very violent fiction that in the end, promotes a whole topic of female empowerment. Writing sexually explicit content, with scenes that are at once exciting and stomach turning is a challenge when you are female.

When reading this book, I was considering the work of Bell Hooks and her commentary on the normalization of violent sex and how that normalizes female subjugation. I agree with hooks (failure to capitalize is intentional) on many, many issues, but this one falls flat for me. I think the normalization of violence, period, is bad and it certainly isn’t good for women, I just think hooks finds legitimate what passes for anything related to BDSM as being normalized. It’s not legit BDSM, so we’re just normalizing violence against women, we aren’t normalizing alternate sexual lifestyle.

Added to this, now, as Submissive Confessions exhibits quite beautifully, women are writing about issues of violence against women on their own. I’ll feel comfortable saying that George is about as far from buying into patriarchy as any woman I know.

Bringing me to my point:

I think I just love the post-modern twist that allows a woman to write sexually on violence against women. It’s perfect.

This book is entertaining and important, in my opinion, far beyond just being the goal reached by my friend in publishing a book. It sparked conversations between me and Jim and between me and my mentor.

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Written by thelittlepecan

April 2, 2011 at 12:55 am

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